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November 19, 2005
Dear Marie,
I am a former volunteer
director of our church choir. Since the new director has started, choir membership has dropped almost to nothing. It seems
to be because the new director is an ultra "highbrow" classical instrumentalist who is never totally happy
with the choir's results. Do you think I should try to go back and help?
Watching from Afar
Dear Watching,
One of the very hardest things that exists is watching people you know and love
make a mess out of something. It's even harder when you know you could help "fix" the problem, or avoid it
in the first place if they asked you to help. Any help you attempt to give comes with the danger of creating a major
church politics crisis. Be very careful that you don't make a bad situation worse.
Unfortunately, choir attendance--and to some extent, quality--tend to be
directly related to how dynamic, inspirational, and popular the director is. Instrumental and orchestral conductors
are often UNpopular with their [usually paid] players (There are dozens of "the-orchestra-conductor-is-an-ogre"
jokes that circulate, enough to verify the stereotype.) and rarely realize that amateur singers need to LIKE them
in order to sing well--or bother to show up for rehearsals. They also tend to interpret a singer's natural limitations and
lack of perfect pitch as lack of musical ability and training. They have a hard time describing the
vocal effects and techniques that they want to achieve. It is difficult for an instrumentalist to make the transition
to choir director, especially if they expect a choir of voices to function as an extended instrument. Singers must
be inspired, persuaded and taught (not ordered) to do what the director wants.
It is also quite possible that your former singers are boycotting the new director
as a form of loyalty to you. The biggest help is letting "your" old group know it's OK to follow new direction. If you can,
be a part of the choir; sing in the group, and be supportive, but try not to diminish the new director's authority. Also,
find something good to say about the new director when you're talking to other church members. Perhaps, if you, the
former director, are seen "being there", it will help the new director grow into the job.
Of course, the best and most effective thing you can do is pray for the choir and their
new director.
I'll pray for you.
Marie

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